Does a big wedding really matters?

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Ray
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rookie
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16/08/2007 12:18:34 PM

Frankly all weddings is an occasion for a couple who ties the knot and invite ppl to celebrate the happiness event. It is true that the wedding is so called "once in a lifetime" but its is being over use nowadays.

I pity for those who spend so much yet now have heavy debts... for me it is not neccesary...

but still it all depends on each individuals wants... but my concern is... plz do not spend to much unless u can have a stress free and debts free... the most important thing is the life after marriage...

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masyanna
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30/10/2007 8:47:54 AM

In my humble opinion,,most of those who get married are now more concerned about how lavish their wedding is going to be than worry about the "after" married expenses.I guess one might end up starting the marriage on the wrong foot...that is "footing" the bills of all the debts incurred. If they are lucky and not get in the "family way" way early , maybe there some hope.
So instead of starting their blissful marriage life,, loving and caring for each other,, they might end up bickering at each other because of their debts and some if they don't have proper religious guidance will end up divorcing before a year into their marriage :(
I think, the couple should sit down and talk about their financial situations ,, getting their parents involves,, and spend within their means,, even if their parents might disagrees. Explained to them your reasons, insha'allah they will understand.
Insha'allah , both would start their married life,, debt free and stress free with mutual respect for each other, for both work as a team to make the wedding a success instead of a burden...Sorry for being so long winded.. Forgive me if i offended anyone with my opinion,, thats was not my intention.