Q. Should i Divorce or NOT due to husband's bad behaviour?


Hi I am a muslim convert and have a 3 year old daughter from this marriage with whom i have been married for 2 years.

I am in a dilemna as i have had enough of bearing and being patient with him and his web of lies and during the 3 years of my daugters life he has gone in prison for basically 7 months was released March 2009 and then went in to prison again in 6 months and was released in May 2010.

The only person holding me back from getting a divorce from him is my daughter cos she loves her daddy so much.

I have to pay for the newly bought house ( including his cpf share) and he seems to taka advantage of the fact that i have been doing this all this while and he does not bother to find a job and i have to support everything else. he is already in his 40's but he still dreams to get rich. I am so depressed lately that i just feel like ending my life but each time i have that thought i wonder what will happen to my beautiful daughter.

After much thinking i have decided that i have had enough and want to leave him but i need this to be doen right cos he can be violent and he knows where i work and he is also manipulative.

250 points 1votes 1/07/2010 9:36:24 AM by Vi rookie Post Reply
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Salam Vi..

You must understand that in Islam, you too have your rights...

The thing is that you must understand that you could go to the Syariah Court with all of your evidences . I think that they might consider your case .

Yea, maybe your daughter might grow up without a father, but with a good mother, i am very sure your daughters could be a good person.

Pray alot to Allah and also seek a councilor should you not able to take it..

0votes 26/03/2011 1:10:50 AM by rabbit fresh

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