how do u know when your friends appreciate u??
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19/03/2007 8:30:28 PMYou will know when your friend appreciates you when they are there for you in the bad times and good times.
If you find yourself always calling them all the time and they don't even bother to give some of their time in return, then they are not your real friends.
If they are busy all the time, and giving you excuses..then move on. STOP calling them. Find yourself another friend who will treat you right. :)
If you friend cannot make an effort to talk to you or stay in touch with you, then i think they are not appreciating you.
best of luck.
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19/03/2007 9:25:55 PMhow about backtracking as to why you became friends with this person?
under what circumstances did you meet?, did you expect your friendship to be long lasting?
you know i've always wondered what 'friendship' really means.......
i'd agree with malt that if they stand by you even when you're at your lowest, then you definately have a friend there...
if not, then i suppose i'd weigh out your options as to whether you'd want to keep worrying why this person isn't returning your calls.
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19/03/2007 9:53:56 PMAsk them when are they free. if they have no free day at all for you, that means that they are not your real friends. I totally agree with the replies above. just carry on with your life. i am sure that you will get better friends
try to reflect what you had done. maybe they are not happy with you . or maybe they wanted revenge.
in my point of view, if you want to know if your friend is the best, just ask them to keep a item that belong to you (like in project discussion).
if they give to you back same or almost the same as you gave it to your friend, that means you can trust your friend.
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19/03/2007 10:44:09 PMRabbit interesting point noted about trust, but wht do u mean by your project discussion? and Ebonytigress about backtracking. i wonder what friendship means as well..hrmm
I personally have many different types which come and go. the ones who went are the ones who never had time for me and only hang out with me when they needed something from me.
The really good friend are the ones who listen to me when i needed to, are not judgemental, accept me as i am with my bad and good point, do not gossip behind my back , and no back stabbing and tell me off when i needed to listen to that( correct me when i'm wrong and encourage the good). If your friend does this things..then they appreciate you.
(p.s you have to give the same back as well to receive teh same)
oh and if we do have a fight they will still be your friend instead of ending the relationship. and very classic girl syndrome (that's what i call it) some girls will end a friendship just because their ex-boyfriend dated their friend... It's just not worth it.
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19/03/2007 10:48:30 PMlet me clarify what do you mean with project discussion
it is actually a piece of work that you had found out and it is the answer to the topic. as X hates you , X volounteer to keep all the works . X put your paper at the top most, and as it was raining , X uses this piece to shield from the rain. this means that X is not your friend as he/she sabotaged your work.
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20/03/2007 4:25:50 PMthnks for all for your reply...i got a particular fren which she alwys treat me like her bestfren...as for me, bestfren will nvr exist in my mind..cos i dont like to keep bestfren.i rather keep LOTS of goodfren ,closefrens n buddies...she treat me like her best bestfren but yet somesort use me as sumone who can be wit her wen she free or wen she had a fight with her bf..i jus hate this..wat am i for...1st time wen she do it, i close 1 eye..but now wen she continuesly doin it, i felt irrtitates..
Malt, i like ur reply..dats is wat i have been doin..if ther any of my fren doin dat kind of way, i rather move on n b on my own... watever it is, now i know, who have been my real fren n who hv not...
ebonytriggers, i call dem to have a cup of tea..jus chat around to rls some tension...of cos, i wanna have a fren dat is longlasting..dont tell me , u wanna have fren dats come n go...if frens dat come n go, i have plenty on my hand...the prob im facing here is the one dat treat me as her bestfren...she irrtates me alot...
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wen i always call them, dey always buzy.sumtime,it make me frustrated with the ans they reply me.sumtime, i dont know wherther are they ignoring me or jus dont bother to reply on my calls.
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