Q. Married secretly w/o families involved - Ways?

i want 2 get married with my gf..but i want to do it discreetly without our families knowing..what should i do apart from going 4 marriage course,registering at ROMM...and can any male muslims be my witnesses? importantly where can i get a wali 4 my gf???

500 points 1votes 3/08/2009 11:10:26 AM by oliee rookie Post Reply
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Marriages are not supposed to be a secret. But after evaluating everything and coming to a conclusion that this is the best choice, my recommendation is that you consult a Ustad from a religious angle. Once you have done the consulting, then at least your concsience will be clear that you have done everything possible within your means to try to resolve it before taking this final step. I can help and feel free to contact us at www.faithhub.com . I hope that Allah will be a guide for you through this difficult times. Ameen.

1votes 22/12/2009 6:59:23 AM

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by Mehboob whiz Org Accepted Reply

Salam bro.

I do not want and wish to probe your personal affairs.

But if you truly love your girlfriend and want to marry her, it is only right to ask permission from her parent about your decision to get married with her and not doing such covert activities.

Bro you are not marrying just her and her alone... yes in physical terms you are but spiritually you are marrying into her family and her into yours.

You do not want both her and your family to be feeling anxious about both of you...

What is hidden will be ultimately be uncovered...

Please bro, a family also includes parents, brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, cousins... These are the people that are connected by blood. And blood is ultimately stronger than those so called fair weathered friends..

Really, please go and reflect on this...

When there is money all will be friends with you, when there is none... only your family will be there... And true friends... you will find when you have no money..


Really bro please, on the righteous path and lead us not astray...

Salam

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