Q. Secret Marriage information
if boy and girl are agree for marry. the only problem is their parent.they did not allow them to get marry.
the situation is take parent or the girl.but boy want both parent and girl.
if in this situation a boy do secret marriage in order to keep their parent happy and also get her love one so it will be a valid marriage or not.
if not so what will be the valid path for this situation.once again parent will not allowed them at any cost.
boy and girl love each other not for their physical need they want to have a valid relation.
Also they will make this marriage with a passage of time.mean to say every thing is fair, no plan for temporary marriage.
thanks
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19/10/2009 2:16:42 PM
by
khan
rookie
Post Reply
Hi,
Here is what I can help with my personal knowledge/opinion.
1> You need to speak to the girl's parents again. No point getting married without blessing.
2> What can you do to 'win' their hearts?
Example: Go for Religious Classes, Upgrade yourself and lifestyle Etc.
3> There is such a thing as Wali Hakim but like I mentioned in 1, what is a wedding withou blessing, right ?
4> Go to Muslim Converts' Association and seek guidance on what to do .There are great and sincere people that will help guide you there.
Wallahu'alam.
I hope this helps :)
1votes
28/10/2009 10:15:15 AM
by
Shyra_Lee
rookie
Accepted Reply
My question to you is how long do you know your parents ... and how long do you know this girl.... By virtue of that the answer is simple. There need to be scarifices that both of you need to make. The challenge is to get the blessings from your parents before you setlle down. Give yourself a year to win your parents over and try your best. Allah knows best. As long as you have tried and ask Allah for guidnace through your additional prayers, then make your choice as per the guidnace you get. Insya Allah your issue will be resolved. We pray for you as well. Ameen.
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22/12/2009 6:55:48 AM
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