Q. Details of pre-marriage courses - Age

Hi, i believe the pre-marriage course should be at least 21 years old rite.i got 1 question to ask that i'm 20 years old i'll be turn up 21 on the 31st jan 2008 but the course start on 20 jan &27 jan 2008.is that possible i sign-up for the pre-marriage course?or i still have to wait till my birthday?

500 points 1votes 28/11/2007 1:00:12 PM by im rookie Post Reply
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No one should be stopping you from attending a course. If they do, please go to the higher authorities. The pre-marriage course is to teach people their responsibilities within a marriage. This is just a minor technicality issue as you are already planning ongetting married & you will be 21 soon. Insya'Allah, they will acced to your request. I will pray for both of you to have a smooth path to tieing that knot. Act responsibly and Allah will have mercy on us.

1votes 30/11/2007 7:25:27 AM

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Thank you for the answer .may god bless u.Amin.

1votes 30/11/2007 2:32:31 PM by im rookie

I'm curious, where did it state you must be 21 before you can attend the course?

If the boys of singapore are entrusted with a fire arm at 18 years old, this is strange indeed.

1votes 30/11/2007 4:48:10 PM by MDSG rookie

Since u are below 20 u need to go to PPIS to sit for counselling gal..

1votes 24/05/2009 9:27:28 PM by sweetheart rookie

Yes, sweetheart is right.
My nephew has just got married and because the girl is not yet 21 yrs old then they and their parents have to attend the counselling at PPIS.
I guess the ruling is due to the increae no of young couples getting a divorce...

1votes 25/05/2009 11:42:38 AM by fifiany fresh

apkim will still take u in for registration purposes..but u cant sit for the session until u reach 21yrs old... so u can eirther reg now or wait till next yr...

0votes 14/07/2009 11:24:20 PM by sweetheart rookie

ish.... so leceh....

0votes 20/07/2009 10:59:16 PM by Skidded fresh

i think the marriage guidance course should be improved further...
somehow i felt that it does teaches us about the basic things...

but since from their statistic that many younger generation divorcing is at peak... they would know by now what are the problems that couple faced.

And from there they should try to include such topics on how to tackle the problems as such in our marriage...

I attended it and one of the speaker, went asking each one of us gals... "how much is your dowry?"

To me, those on a higher scale would be proud to mention the amount... but what about on a lower scale... sikit banyak, some would feel inferior...

To me such topics, is not relevant somehow...

And for them to make such ruling of 21 yrs... below 21yrs to go for counselling... I find it crap... but who am i to say much... I'm just a small fry.

0votes 20/07/2009 11:04:33 PM by Skidded fresh

so that means u'll have to go ppis if ur under 21?

0votes 17/11/2010 2:35:02 AM by feza rookie

i didnt know about this new ruling.. when did it start? During my time as long as u are above 16 you can get go to these courses and get married, but the ustaz will interview just in case it is a forced marriage..

Btw, since in the same topic, may i also ask.. does one need to still attend this pre-marriage course if you have been married before i.e. divorcee but getting married to a bachelor/bachelorette..
or only the bachelor/bachelorette need to attend the course?

0votes 26/11/2010 2:22:04 PM by junifa fresh

from what i know, if u have been married before, u are not required to attend e pre-marriage course. but im not sure whether e bachelor/bachelorette need to go for course.

0votes 29/11/2010 10:00:16 PM by feza rookie

Please don't ask a question in a question. Thank you.

0votes 16/01/2011 10:43:58 AM by NasiBriyani the boss

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