Will you get married if you know now what you know then
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4/05/2007 3:54:33 AMhehehe..this could be a back-stabbing answer for onself!
Hope the spouse is not reading!!!
One can never be sure about marriage and of one's spouse or oneself too. Even if you know now what you know, it still does not change of its uncertainty even if it is repeated again. But what has passed has passed.
I guess one would still get married (if single) as it is your moral obligation. We cannot deny because we do desire.
Can anyone be really certain of their fiance and soon to become their spouse??
No, being human....we all change..hopefully for better..
That's why we seek the Guidance...... ask! and He will show.. Ask with a true heart...insya'allah.
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4/05/2007 11:01:35 PMpeople get cluttered in this barrier that they have created through time, which cluttered their vision. which in turn clutter who they really are.
people don't change but just becomes cluttered through time, as long as they don;t realise it, they will contribute negatively into their relationships and life.
If humans are the same to start with then, they should be the same thought the marriage. if there are any signs of 'change', it would be for the worst. if you find your spouse saying..i dono who you are anymore. means that you have allowed yourself to be cluttered. this happends to everyone.
we cannot be what we are not..and we need to be true to ourself. and if a positive 'change' is what you see..then truly your spouse is going back to who he/she truly is.
It take great effort and realisation to get back to who you really are. (asking god alone will not show your the path) coz it take effort and true honesty to oneself to find this out.
We marry our spouse because essentially we know that humans a born good, and so are our spouse. I will still marry my spouse knowing what i know now about marriage and my spouse and life, coz i'm in the idea of inspiring myself and engaging the positive and true me with the world. instead of blaming and building grudges and resentment of the many bad things that happened, i choose to take the responsibility of my own actions.
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16/07/2007 10:29:24 AMBeing married is one of my blessings in this life. I find so much of support from my spouse on some areas where I lack the strength. Hence it helps to complement me.
The grass is always greener elsewhere. Unless you learn to deal with this fact, your spouse will always have gaps. Guess, what, if you ask her, she too will feel the same. The trick is how to be contented and to focus on the positives rather than the negatives. Then you find that it is not too bad after all.
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16/07/2007 10:30:08 AMBeing married is one of my blessings in this life. I find so much of support from my spouse on some areas where I lack the strength. Hence it helps to complement me.
The grass is always greener elsewhere. Unless you learn to deal with this fact, your spouse will always have gaps. Guess, what, if you ask her, she too will feel the same. The trick is how to be contented and to focus on the positives rather than the negatives. Then you find that it is not too bad after all.
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For those muslims who are already married.
If you know now what you know then about marriage and your spouse, would you still get married?
Would you get married to your current spouse?
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