Is it wront to want to go out with friends or go on a vacation with your mom while you are married. My husband thinks that to go out you have to spend a ton of money. I think just the opposite.
I want to go on vacation (only 8 hrs away) but for 6 days. I am only wanting to go with my mom to see family I havent seen in 19 yrs. He thinks I am wrong to go. We are having a womans get together.
I never go out, because if I do he gets mad. Yes, there are trust issues, because I had an affair 8 yrs ago. He still cant get passed this. We have been married for 15 yrs.
He doesnt ever want to go anywhere. We dont even have company anymore. He says we cant afford to have friends over. Since when does it cost money to have friends come to your house. I have no friends of my own because he doesnt like any of my friends. He doesnt want to do anything but sit at home, play on the computer or watch tv. How boring is this??? Very. I am going stir crazy.
The last time I was out was bowling with him and some friends on new yrs eve. I feel secluded. What should I do, and is this normal. Shouldnt there be a life outside marriage. Is it really all about just the husband and wife.
alamak sis.. susah ni..
yang important is the priority.. who came first and who came last is not priority... priority means that in the order of importance and the value that it holds.
Can you replace mum.. nope...
Can you replace wife.. maybe... nope..
Can you replace friend..maybe.. maybe..maybe...nope..
But among the above.. who would understand you more... mum.. maybe....wife... maybe.....friend surely....
next is the time... priority... who is there all the time.. mum...wife.. friend...
on the trust issue.. the fact is that it will leave a mark.. a scar.. that is the truth... but.. as long you enjoy it. that is urs to bear..
Hi, just came across this website and this is my first virgin post :P. Anyways, my story is quite similar to yours.i have been married for 7 years. i do feel lonely at times as my husband dont really allow me to go out and until i have lost contact with my friends. and 7 years later,i find myself friend-less. if your husband like to do things together, maybe you can invite him together but make sure both of you interacts with everyone else. slowly he will build his trust in you.
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