Q. Feeling stress, extreme sad and bothered

i am a very easy going a jovial human being. but lately, with out me realising it, my parents arguements are affecting me. This cycle happens almost every month since 10 years ago. Me and my siblings felt the same way too. I love both my parents but sometimes i know that my dad doesnt treat my mother right.

He is the type of person who always thinks and know he is right. He wont accept views or advice from any one accept from himself. Once i heard my mum trying to coax him, but the way he answered! his language disturbed me. If some one were to approached him and try to advice him, he will get so very very very angry and he will not talk to my mum without any reason what so ever. the thing is, what did my mum do? she didnt do anything... when ever he is angry at something or someone, he will throw his ridiculous rage at my mum! i cant accept it! it has been going on and on for 10 years now. and currently its the same cycle all over again.

one incident i can point out is recently,
We went for a 4 days vacation last 2 weeks, on the 3rd day, he got angry with out a reason. From then on wards he didnt talk to my mum till now. and from what i recall, we went shopping, then we drive back to our hotel , but we got lost. (thats kinda common though) and from then on wards, he got freaking pissed and lay the blame on my mum. and told her "nobody appreciates what i do"... THE THING IS, we did not do anything or say anything to hurt him. instead we pull out the map and searched for directions back.

when we came back to spore, he did even talk, see or even eat the food my mum cooks. i dont understand his problem. every now and then i hear my mum cries. during the day and at night. i cant take it! every body has anger, every body has feelings but he treats us all like nothing.. we are nothing.. only his feelings matter... only his.. and no one else!

500 points 1votes 15/12/2009 4:00:56 PM by Sadness rookie Post Reply