Hi, i have a friend.
Her parents are divorce. She's staying with her mom. She's not in good terms with her father and her father has long lost concern towards his family well-being and unable to give nafkah to the family.
She's getting married soon. The question is she needs a wali for her marriage. And that will be her father. Her father was called upon and he agrees to be the wali. Apparently, she felt that she cannot trust her father to be present during the solemnization because she knew that her father is capable of being absent as a wali on the day itself. What will happen if he is absent? Could her uncle act as a wali on his parent behalf on that day. Muis told that the marriage could not be carried out if he's absent. which i think is not good cos the majlis persandingan has happen. Has anyone ever encounter this problem before or experience this before. She is in dilemma. Pening.
If the father has agreed, but your friend suspects that he may not turn up, then best for her to get a her uncle on stand by. Sounds like her father may not be very reliable, I sympathise for your friend.
Also she should pray and ask Allah to make everything smooth on that day, so that mer marriage will not be delayed un neccessarily. And of course for family & friends to doa for her too. Life is unprec=diactble of course, and with effort and prayers to Allah, I think things will go well.
If there is an unexpected set back, hust counsel your friend to be mentally prepared for "best" case and worsT case scenario.
Anyways my doa for your friend, hope all goes well, Insya Allah.
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