Unfortunately, according to secular law it is possible. However, for your confirmation, the marriage is not valid in Islam due to the witnesses and pre-conditions for the contract of between two people in marriage. Hence, if your spouse-to-be accepts your opinion, please as a Muslim inform her that the validity is against what is given in the Quran. Doing so pulls her towards unbelief, which we Muslims hope you would convey this message, if you are a man/woman of good heart and intention. Relay him/her to read the Quran for what Allah has reason to mankind in this life and for hereafter since the first man (Adam), so that we do not fall among those who are ignorant, transgressed and hypocrites.
As far as her wish ( in conversion) is concerned, that 's her decision. In Islam there is no compulsion, however the reminder, the revelation from Allah, (especially if he/she is a Muslim), is already known ( if not now and soon). As a Muslim, we all pray for her guidance from err and the protection of evil whisperer of Satan and hearts of mankind in this world.
Please send our salaam to the Muslim you loved so much. We could only pray to Allah, for He guides whom He will, and whomsoever He has made misguided, there is none to guide. We Muslims bear witness there is non to worship other Allah, and Muhammad(peace and blessings be upon him) is HIs prophet and Messenger to mankind.
Fariz, thanks, i'll tell her. dont worry :)
I realize you're quite a devoted muslim, i'd like to know more about religion.
Perhaps we can talk about it one day :)
I'm a free thinker who hates religion but want to learn about religions.
As I did mentioned in my post, she has to the right choice to made her decision... as long no one forces her to, which has an exception like in parts of Muslim history. As a Muslim, god-willing, she knew her position, conscious and identity well enough to admit and understand her actions and consequences. Peace.
According to the Islamic Laws the Muslim Women cannot marry a Non Muslim Man for being that she will forget this religion and her children may not be a Muslim.
Hence you have actually put her in a very difficult position.
If she decides to convert to another religion, there will be other social problems such as the family not accepting her and so on and on. This can be quite a mess.
What's make it more complicated is that she has children, what values are you going to pass down to them and what religion are they going carry?
Perhaps as a Free Thinker you should explore further our religion. Start reading the books and ask the right people about Islam.
My friends always say this, "Are Free Thinkers always Free? Or Are they just lost?"
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