Sometimes in life, you have to give up somethings, someone even your loved ones because your love for Allah and our Rasul is even more. I went through what you are currently going through. It was Chinese girl, my first love and it was almost imposiible to give her up ... at last, I thank Allah for my courage... she attempted suicide, I was on the verge of losing my mind.....all I knew was that I loved my religion & was never going to embarass my parents regardless of what I have to go through personally. I chose Islam and stood by it. My parents were happy that I did it because they were no longer in control of me & ultimately I had to make that call myself.... I took almost 7 years to get over her but I did. I met a Muslim girl this time & am blessed with 4 children now. I know it is tough when you are in it but the fact is ask yourself... are you living for this world or the hereafter... if your answer is clear... then the choice becomes clear... take it as a test from Allah and surely He has a bigger plan in store for you. I pray that Allah will also help both of you overcome this difficult moments. Verily with every difficulty there is relief. Ameen.
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23/12/2007 11:08:53 AM
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Mehboob
whiz
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Choosing over faith is not easy. Please understand her feelings too. Faith can changes a person ethically and emotionally, so it may take time or changes a person's heart.
I pray for the best of both of you, whether both of you end up together or not. It's for the best of both of you.
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27/12/2007 9:35:49 PM
by
Fariz
whiz
i was in love with a hindu guy whose family is very religious..i didnt see it as a problem and carried on this relationship but i knew my limits and i never asked hime to convert before but we both knew we cant get married. we stilll carried on this relationship. it was almost a year when he suddenly voice out that he wanted to convert out of his own free will. i was happy and really excited cos we love each other so much. but i guess i was too naive. i didnt think of our families and other issues. he wanted to convert and thats all i cared. i plan ervythg out and was about to bring him to classes and all when he committed suicide. that was it. i couldnt turn back time. both families including mine blamed me for his death. no matter how much i try to make myself believe that i didnt cause his death i cant help feeling guilty. i never knew the actual reason why he committed suicide and it still haunts me till now. so i advise you to really think about it and put everthg into consideration. and yeah, mehboob is right, sometimes we have to let go of certain thgs. just dont do anythg that will make u regret in the future.
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4/01/2008 10:10:47 PM
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jannah14
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