Q. Reactions when family member wants civil marriage?
What would you do when your loved one insists that she wants to do a civil marriage ?
50 points 0votes 28/02/2010 11:20:26 AM
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What would you do when your loved one insists that she wants to do a civil marriage ?
50 points 0votes 28/02/2010 11:20:26 AM
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There's nothing & no one compared to God & if she/he wants a CM then she/he is not the one for me. Easier said then done but if you have a deep rooted strength in God & your beliefs, I believe life will go on & eventually insya Allah you will find the one where you will spend the rest of life with & here after in Syurga :)
But I think it's important to communicate or educate your partner about Islam, some people get new found passion when realizing Islam & God. And also pray that God gives he/she hidayah :)
At the end ofthe day it really depends on how strong your religious faith & beliefs are. It's like standing up for your beliefs. Some people are easily swayed & some will fight to the end for their passion, faith & life! :)
My 2 cents worth
Why in the world do u want to have a civil marriage..
Not saying its wrong but it is better to be married in the normal official way.
Civil marrige is mostly when a muslim wants to marry someone who is not muslim. who doesnt want to convert as one.
for short civil marrige for muslim is not a marrige no ties no knots..no cert
when u hav kids they are consider luar nikah.
do u want tat for ur kids future..
im afraid i know the answer is no.
so think wisely..get someone within ur zone..
my answer to this Question absolutely no..die2 i wont allow..
Sometimes there are many causes of this problem. Perception of marriage within Muslim law to some of the children today, may be "seen" outdated, uninterested or too ritualistic. Usually because the parents or the children are not opened or enlightened towards the significance of nikah (solemnization) of marriage within the family, witnesses and status of marriage in Islam.
In civil marriage, the contract is witnessed within the body of government, where the rights, conditions and status of the marriage is stipulated within the current govt and secular law of the country. In Islam, naturally it is stipulated within the revelation of Allah within the Quran and also the sunnah. Conditions for divorce in Islam and civil law is obviously different, which is sometimes can be difficult.
Hence it is important to observe these differences to inform the children since young, so that they know not to confuse of view marriage within Islam simply as a "tradition" of Islam. Marriage is not a small "thing" in Islam or secular civil law, it states the rights, limits and conditions for both husband and wife, not simply signing a letter, a wedding dinner and honeymoon....
We do not support it but nothing is stopping us for praying for them to be guided. I had a case, where the mother's Doa was so powerful that the son in law to be actually had a big quarrel with her daughter which actually ended up in calling off the wedding at the eleventh hour. Allah knows best. Walahu Alam.
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